aneshnash wrote:Hello everybody,
... many of them see playing piano as an annoying thing they have to do to please their parents...
Thank you
I'm willing to bet that in 95% of cases, the parents do not play any type of musical instrument. (Piano lessons are seen as something you send your child to in order to show everybody what a civilised and cultivated person you are and what a genius little Tommy or Sally is developing into...along with the ballet classes, after-school coaching, five different kinds of sport and a foreign language.)
And of those that do, probably very few spend time playing with their child and just having fun (as opposed to breathing down their neck saying "is that what you're supposed to be practicing for your lesson?" and "you got that wrong - play it again!")
Or giving their child any other opportunities to play with their peers or benefit a social or community group.
When I was a child having piano lessons, as soon as my fingers were coordinated enough I was recruited to accompany my parents' enthusiastic amateur singing endeavours and my brother's efforts on the violin, to play hymns at church, perform at charity fundraisers/ aged care homes, and encouraged to play in small groups with other kids around my age. Later on came high school band (when I started learning the flute), and high school choir (where I would fill in for the regular pianist when she was away, and where I met husband - who sang bass even in those days).
The social aspect is so important. If we want children to enjoy music, we must enjoy making music with them!
One of my friends has found a music teacher for her son who teaches both the child AND the parent at the lesson, and the parent is encouraged to join in when the child plays at home.
And how about finding out which kids (out of your son/daughter's circle of friends and schoolmates) are having music lessons, and inviting them all over for a party with their instruments, and any favorite music that they want to try out, at the home of someone who owns a piano? IMSLP could be a great resource for something like this.
Just a few random ideas.
AJ
“all great composers wrote music that could be described as ‘heavenly’; but others have to take you there. In Schubert’s music you hear the very first notes, and you know that you’re there already.” - Steven Isserlis